I Like My Girls With Low Self Esteem

Over a year ago I met this smoking hot girl at a bar. She hated me then even more than she does now. Most sexual relationships are built on a strong foundation of hatred and attraction, which they should be. Either hatred which turns you on to them or hatred where you really want to hurt them in the bedroom with rough sex. Often they go hand in hand.

One night when at a club in South Beach with three friends, one girl and two duds, my two boys were murdering me with boredom. I drank and I drank, but I hit that point where if I consumed an additional 10 or 20 drinks I was still going to feel just as sober.

One of my good buddies known as Seafood because he sees food he eats it, was texting with two girls who ending up meeting us out. I was ready to leave the club before even walking in so when I met the two bombshells I extended my hand, said nice to meet you and turned right back around to the bar to see if I could beat this soberness.

The girls were offended I did not hang around and talk longer, but I was so sober I could have driven a car in reverse while weaving in and out of traffic blindfolded and jerking off with my feet; and let's get to the real point, who wants to talk to a girl sober? I continued to drink hoping that I could turn this night around. Evidently, my boredom worked in my favor on this off night and I accidentally intrigued one of the ladies.

My lack of interest in Bombshell #1 was an optical allusion because I truly was interested. When approaching such a bombshell I generally would have been quickly shot down, but that night I was so bored and in such a horrible mood that it worked to my advantage.

Those of you men needing help in the pussy crushing department take some advice. The trick is to intrigue the girl and hold her interest. Be mysterious and not in a Val Kilmer in Batman Forever kinda way. Be mysterious enough that she is questioning why is this guy not talking to me? Is there something wrong with my outfit? Can he do that much better than me?

For those of you who don't know how to make a girl feel this way, here is a move of mine that I find works more often than not. I generally do not believe in buying a girl a drink, but most of you don't know how to approach a girl unless you do so here is your exception:

When you see a girl you're interested in about to order a drink, walk up next to her and do the same. Tell her you need to put a minimum on your credit card and want to close out and she would she be doing you a great service if she ordered a drink on your tab. When talking to most girls their first thought is, "when is he leaving" so this approach works well because she knows you won't be hanging around. After buying her the drink walk away immediately. She is instantly intrigued and slightly offended you don't stay to talk. The rest of the night when she sees you, she is going to be wondering, why didn't he want to talk to me?

Luckily for me, the fact I had an off night intrigued Bombshell #1 enough that she wanted to know more about me. Most guys like girls with low self esteem. It's because the less they think of themselves the more interested they become in you.

A few weeks later I was out and ran into Bombshell #1. This time I once again didn't show much interest because I was in the middle of talking with a friend. Rarely am I able to play it so cool with a girl as out of this world attractive as she is, but with her I was able to do it twice. Later that night a bunch of us found ourselves getting a 3 am meal and she came along. We got to talking and it became evident how bothered she was that I had previously blown her off. Bombshell #1 has extremely high self esteem, but I was able to temporarily lower it resulting in her on-going interest, exactly what you should all be aiming for.

Too often girls like to toot their own horn and think their shit doesn't stink. They think, oh some guy bought me a drink so I'm hot shit. Well guys do yourselves and all females a favor. If their self confidence is too high, lower it for them. Believe me no one wants to date a stuck up bitch and she doesn't want to date a little pussy either, so don't be a pushover.